Christmas in the County

Sunday, December 7, 2014

I'm sure Christmas everywhere is fabulous, but Christmas in the County is amazing! There are so many activities to do that it's physically impossible to do it all. With that in mind, we've decided on events the whole family can enjoy.

This weekend my parents came down so decided to stay local and have pancake breakfast with Santa hosted by the Cherry Valley Lions. As soon as Eggs saw Santa, he ran over, said hello and jumped on his lap. We should have left him in his sweater and toque for his photo, because as soon as we took it off, he was no longer ... cooperative.


Aside from Miss A throwing coffee at me, it was a great way to kick off our weekend adventure. Next up, we made our way to Wellington to check out the craft sale and visit whoville. We didn't stay too long as we were long past Miss A's nap schedule and the temperatures were starting to drop.


To end our day, we finally got our tree trimmed and watched some Christmas flicks. Next year I hope to get to a tree farm and chop down our own, as we really should have a 10ft live tree in our house. It's only right. Next weekend, I plan to attend the Busy Hands Craft Sale with the intention to finish up my shopping. Key word there is "intention". Pin It

Juggling Act Chapter 2: Back to Work

Saturday, November 29, 2014

It's been three weeks now since I started back to work and so far so good. The first two weeks I was in Toronto Monday - Friday so Miss A and I stayed with my parents, where her and my mother got in some much needed girls time. Eggster stayed in the county with Rockstar making the move for Rockstar into the primary day-time care provider a little less hairy.

{'That's it! I'm going to Grandma's House"}

Starting work also coincided with the ramp up of Miss A eating real food, so that worked out quite well since we was 100% dependent on me for her dietary needs. As suspected, this child loves EVERYTHING! I say suspected due to the fact since the early days she would stalk whoever was eating and start to drool. Perhaps she learned that from Seamus the Dog.

{Miss A watching cartoons with Gramma} 

Last week was the first time both kids stayed at home while I made my weekly 2 day visit to Toronto. When I came home, the house was still standing and the dishes were done so I consider that a great success (although I'm sure the fact Rockstar's parents were over the one day to help with the kids and basic "stuff that we've ignored to do in the house" projects were a large contributor to this success).

 {Sibling antics - sample of photos Rockstar sends me while I'm in the city}

I love being back at work. I love getting back to wearing dresses and heels, and enjoy gossip sessions with my BFF (who I am staying with while in the city). I mostly enjoy the 5 days a week when I am able to enjoy breakfast, lunch and dinner with my children and Rockstar. Not many working moms have this luxury, which I am very grateful for.

{Bloomfield Night-Time Santa Clause Parade 2014. Our first family parade}

This family set-up will be an ongoing balancing act but I'm confident we will stumble through it. We're super lucky Rockstar's parents are able to watch the kids the night I'm traveling back from Toronto when he has to teach. We also met the most wonderful young lady in town who comes to the house one afternoon a week who the kids (and Seamus) adore. I adore her too.
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Six Years Ago ...

Friday, November 14, 2014

... it was the most magnificent autumn day, and this happened.

Since that day ...

+ We bought our first home in the GTA
+ I quit my corporate job, went back for a short gig only to quit 9 months later, finding my way back into the same industry in recent months 
+ We added Seamus the GSP to our family  

{Seamus as a baby at 10 weeks old}

+ Discovered dog walking and LOVED it!
+ Brought this amazing kid into our lives

+ Purchased our first family van
+ Spent an amazing week in Iceland that forever changed my life

 {Rockstar and I are the middle couple. This photo was taken by Eric-Pierre Menard}

+ Decided on a whim to pack up our lives in Toronto and move our family to Prince Edward County
+ Added this cheeky lady into our family

+ Opened a B&B and had a pretty great first summer
+ Pickles the Cat ran away (secretly hoping he is still out there and will come home soon)

Thinking back, there are so many other events that has taken place in 6 years. Such as our trip to Ireland, and winning a trip to Thailand , waiting too long to book, and transferring the trip over to Rockstar's cousins since I discovered I was pregnant. Yep, a lot has happened in 6 years.

Here's to another hundred years Rockstar!!

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Back to the Grind and Dressing in Disguise

Sunday, November 2, 2014

After 10 amazing months spending most of my waking hours with the kidlets, it's time to go back to work.

I wrote a post last month about how awesome I am and why everyone should hire me. After many application submissions and zero calls, I have been recruited by a peer of mine to head into the IT Professional Service world I left 5 years ago.  Actually, I did receive one call from a local company that wanted to say hello and tell me I had amazing experience. Sadly they didn't have any headcount at the time but I think it was super rad of Kick Ass Media for taking the time to call me. More people should do that as this job hunting stuff is not easy.

{Calvin and Hobbes, Halloween 2014}

I'm quite excited to head back to work. I excelled in that world, and now that I am 5 years older and have a better grip on work/life balance, I'm eager to show off my rad skills to folks who don't know me as well as learn more to add to my toolbox. My home office will be based out of downtown Toronto which means I will have to show my face at least two days a week. We're hoping to arrange it for two consecutive days to minimize the amount of driving (I don't know how county folks commute every day. INSANE!!)

{I talked about being a robot for days leading up to our outdoor adventure. 
Thankfully he was excited when time came to put on this disguise.}

While I wish I could find something local, the only job that came across my table was a gig 40 minutes away. The job required me to be in the office 5 days a week and the salary offered was drastically less than what I will be making in Toronto. That said, had they agreed to telecommuting, I may have considered the job. 

{knock knock!}

While I'm bummed that I can't be a stay at home mom with a 6 figure salary, I'm very grateful for the opportunity that has been presented to me. Even though I'll be away from the home a couple of days a week, our children will spend their days with their Rockstar Dad (Eggs will still go to preschool twice a week). I look forward to having 5 solid days in the house with them (3 days working, but I'll still be able to have breakfast and lunch with my dudes and dudette). Life is looking pretty good these days. Pin It

Mr Eggs Goes To School

Friday, October 24, 2014

At the beginning of September Rockstar and I made the decision to enroll the kid in a preschool program offered through the local family centre. His class runs twice a week from 9:30 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

After the first month of drop-off-drama, we now have a kid running into his class yelling "bye mommy/daddy" while racing towards the toy tracks.
While we were working on basic counting, reading and writing skills at home, we soon had a kid coming home obsessed with shapes and practicing other skills we didn't think to show him (IE. matching, following patterns). We've since purchased a new app to add to his ever growing game obsession to help him with these newfound skills.

Twice a week we pick up the happiest little boy from school telling us about "Miss Jenny, Georgia and the boys!" My boy is learning how to make friends and has started to ask every day when he wakes up when he can go to "school".  I am so glad we decided to enrol Mr Eggs into this fabulous program and look forward to more artwork and his continuous explosion of skills. He shocks me daily.

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Vineyards, Neighbours and Hidden Wells in Prince Edward County

Friday, October 17, 2014

The other day while Rockstar was out doing some yardwork (AKA stacking wood) he noticed someone cutting through the neighbouring fields on a golf cart. He decided to flag him down and ask him if he by chance owned the fields surrounding our home, and indeed he did.

(Look very closely. Do you see it?)

After a 20 minute conversation, Rockstar learned that our neighbour's family has owned the acres surrounding ours for decades and he is in the process of planting vineyards, slowly making his way to the fields immediately next to ours. While his family lives in Toronto, they have a summer home located across the road from their workhouse.

{Did you spot it? Rockstar just discovered this abandoned well located 20 feet from our deck}

Since we do not own much vacant land (AKA any land) we were struggling to find a solution to our firewood needs. Our neighbour told Rockstar we were welcome to make use of his land to store, chop, and split logs until he needs the land to farm. 

(Seamus was very curious about this well. Another reason why the he can't be left to run the wild fields without supervision)

Our neighbour seems to think we own more of the land in back of our house than we think, so Rockstar and I have been reviewing the documents from when we purchased the house. I may look into getting an official survey done (there is none on record at the land registry office) just in case we own more than what we think we do. Can you imagine if we actually owned more land? How awesome would that be!

(Not sure how Mr. Bunny will escape. Come the spring, Rockstar will be tasked with kid proofing this well including figuring out how deep it goes)

I'm not sure if our neighbour will be creating the next greatest PEC wine, or if he's only into the farming business. Had I met him I would have got the skinny, but in reality, we have years to find out his plan and even more years to find more hidden secrets on our neighbouring land.

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Living in The County is Amazing, The Job Security Sucks

Thursday, October 9, 2014

WARNING: This post is all over the place, and for that, I apologize in advance.

Living in the county is amazing. The fresh country air, the accessibility to fresh farm food, the amazing beaches, access to independent festivals, and the people. Some of the most amazing people live in the county.

With an upcoming election coming up, there has been a great series in the Wellington Times by Mike Harper about County Youth and the Election. Throughout the series Mike interviews a number of folks (age 18 - 40) about why they chose to live in the county and what they think needs to happen to improve county living.

If I was asked about the downside of living in the county, the job situation would be #1 including the lack of them and low pay scale. Moving here we knew that job security was non existent but here's what I have discovered over the year:
  • Most ex-pats moved here with money in their pockets. They owned a home in Toronto or Ottawa, and upon selling their home and moving to the county, the profit they made on their house came with them. 
  • Many county implants own a business and don't employ much staff. Any staff that are hired (and this goes for all businesses in the county) are paid the minimum wage or just slightly above it.
  • Many folks who moved here still work in Toronto or Ottawa. While many are able to work fulltime from the comfort of their homes, many commute to Toronto (some daily). Rockstar still travels to Toronto twice a month for music gigs.

Reality is, I will likely take on a job in Toronto that will require regular commuting. While not ideal, if we want to remain living in this beautiful place, it's currently our only option.  I would love to get a job in the county, but unless we want to significantly downsize and live paycheque to paycheque, it's not an option.

I'm not sure what the solution is. Many articles I read talk about bringing entrepreneurs to the county. The thing is, not everyone is capable or wants to be their own boss. What about families like ours that want to be part of a team? Have job security and money that allows us to save and further invest in the community? Sadly, there is no job market for this. The way I see it, if you want to live in the county, your only options are:
  1. Start you own business and hope it turns a profit
  2. Get minimum paying jobs and pray you'll have enough money at the end of the month to stay out of debt
  3. Work in the city and commute (or if lucky find a job that allows telecommuting)
  4. Have deep pockets
I want to reiterate that we knew about the job situation when we moved here, we really truly did. The plan was for me to return to a Toronto-based job once the babe was old enough, so again this is not a surprise to us. It's just reality coming to fruition, that's all.

I love the county, I really really do.We love the county. I just hope we can stay long enough to raise our kids here and have them experience a culturally enriching community. I also hope some brilliant person in the county with a voice can help solve this job problem, as the county truly is magical and deserves more implants. Pin It